Lol, it really seems like you are still fairly young and you misunderstand the whole point of life, and you also think wrongly about the term "soul mate" instead of thinking about a good, ordinary and healthy relationship.
I completely agree with the statements above. You are very young, and you will probably have plenty of chances, opportunities and surprises from life or the universe. In your age, love isn't the olny thing you have to think about while you are still full of life and energy.
Love, relationships or mating isn't everything. You haven't experiences enough during your short life so it'd be fair enough to think only about love and disappointment from it.
You are young. Enjoy your youth, experience new things, learn to challenge yourself, and enjoy life. You can do many important and unique things instead of being broken hearted and thinking about your relationship and love mates for the future.
We also repeat this sentence a lot of times and say : "Love and luck will surprise you while you're not even expecting it".
This sentence basically says that love,luck and success will come while we are not literally thinking about it, expecting it, or being worried about it all time. Thus, it will eventually come to you naturally. Just stop worrying about it and being disappointed only because currently love hasn't showed up.
Take your time and enjoy from what life has to offer you. The results will be amazing.
Luck and success,