Lol, I know. I wasn't trying to be rude. People who see physically I think have a natural gift for it. But anyone can learn to communicate on a psychic level, but others are more gifted, and have a higher degree in that gift. :)
Let me just say that if you are going to use a ouija board that you may want to have something for protecting(an arrow head is thought to be a proteactive charm) and to be careful what you ask the spirit,don't ask it how it died,i don't have a ouija board,but i've heard that they can be dangerous,and these are just some things that can help,i'm not trying to be bossy especially since i've never used one,but you prabably should be careful not to make a spirit mad at you.