I was wondering if anyone knows any spells to help one find their sexuality because my friend and i are both struggling with or sexualities and i would like to figure it out so please any advice would help at this point
That's one thing I don't think there's a spell for. Sexuality is fluid and changeable so even if there is a spell, I doubt it would give you a clear answer. Don't get caught up in labels. I know that's difficult when everyone else is and you want to identify with a group, but to me it's more important to be yourself. Labels just force us to follow rules for the label and that can cut us off from lots of things. So basically try not to worry about it and just be yourself, be true to yourself and I think you'll be ok.