Today I have seen someone ask how to connect to "their element." Firstly I would like to say that we can use every elements, we just are connected to one or more, more than the others.
How to find what we are most connected to:
This can be done through meditation with and about each element and working with each. We will feel a strong connection towards one, and many of us have felt this connection for many years without noticing it.
How to get more connected:
You can meditate with each element, and use spells calling upon their help. Treat the elements with respect and they will help you with your needs. The more you work with an element the more connected to it you will feel.
Working with the elements:
You can use elements in spells, general energy work, and rituals simply by calling out to them in your mind or out loud. You can also use representations such as salt for earth, candles for fire, incense for air. Water is usually easiest to come by because you can just use a glass or bowl of water.