hi, i need help with a person i have been seing for a bit now, it was great at the start then i caught him in a lie which wasnt so bad if he was up front about it. but we got pass that as it seems,but for the pass while he will distance himself from day to day then be back to normal for a couple of days the next. he wants to no everything but wont do it return as its seems he has a wall he wont let down....i no he love me and cares but he says such nasty things one mintue then nice that next. ive tryed a love spell but dont no if it worked... i no he is stressed and as he puts it (over everything) but i no if he just lets that wall down and me back in like it was i could help him smile again but its the wall im having trouble with
There is no balance if one is taking more than they give. To me it sounds like he doesn't appreciate you the way he should. He may say nasty things due to stress, but a person who is unable to control their emotions in such a way is not strong enough.
There is no wall in this situation, just a vacuum which only he can switch off. You just need to convince him if you wish to get anywhere.