There are many different types of spells on this site , from decent to terrible, realistic to farce, juvenile to adult, etc. Those that have text writing, misspelled words, bad grammar or vocabulary are usually a sign of a poorly written spell submitted by the very young or those who are role playing. Use common sense, intelligence, and maturity when researching any spell.
I suggest if you want to make yourself more attractive to others do so by taking care of yourself through meditation, exercise, eating healthy and getting enough sleep. You can cast magical workings to aid you while you do these things but do not be under the impression that magic will fix your problems without you having to do any mundane actions.
If you want to get more out of your meditations light some incense, play some music, and only use candle light from an anointed candle for meditation while you practice this skill.
If you want to loose some extra weight or just tone your body you can cast a spell to help keep you motivated by creating a mojo bag or charm. Carry this with you and think about the muscle tone you are building as you exercise.
If you have trouble sleeping or need a more restful sleep try using a dream pillow. Make a small pillow and fill it with herbs to help you relax and have a peaceful sleep with pleasant dreams.