When you post something in the public forums its purpose is to create a discussion or debate over the topic. Inevitably you will hear both sides of any issue you present. It is not always seeking out confrontation, as it is in hopes of sparking intellectual discussion and presenting differing viewpoints and opinions.
Having said that, I do not personally agree with you, as I do not believe you can 'control' the elements as such. Humans don't have the understanding of the elements ,and all the other things involved with them, enough to manipulate them physically in a manner like that, simply due to the way this plane works. I chalk most, if not all, experienecs like that up to coincindense.
However, since Adept prompted you as to how to you control them, and you said:"The only way I do it is to project my mind and will onto the elements and think about what I want them to do." I am curious to hear how you project your mind and will onto an element such as wind. If you would care to elaborate on what you mean, I would be appreciative.