Better yet, realize that he's probably not worth the effort and find someone that will actually make you HAPPY, and not make you THINK you're happy. You'll know when you've got someone that even MIGHT be right for you when you don't realize that you don't fight.
Besides, love spells a) usually don't work the way you actually want them to (watch The Craft for a perfect example) and b) wear off fairly quickly. Depending on how much he actually cares about you, you could be recasting the spell as often as a couple times EVERY DAY. That's a fairly extreme estimation, which I would reserve for someone that is only with someone for sex and isn't getting any from the person casting the spell. And even then, they usually sate their desires elsewhere.
Or try a mind sweetening jar spell, so they think nice of You. This leaves them more place for personal choic e to make. Or wear some oil containing Catnip when You meat them ( like oil perfume ) , like "Follow me boy" oil ;)
bored, that last one is more of a lust component than a love attempt... NOT really helpful, I should hope... unless of course desperategirl is one of the many, MANY American teens that believe that sex = love = lust. Then your catnip perfume is a great idea. Though still technically not helpful for the actual request