May I suggest an interpretation;
I am sure you have read about what dreams are motivated by and beyond that, they are also motivated by your emotions of past, present and, (future(prophetic dreams here) events in your life. So, you have been experiencing some stressful events that are frustrating to you in that you have some control.
Your mind, "feels ya," dear reader, it wants to console you, to soothe you, like the warm touch of an understanding mother. So, it helps you, the only way it can SO FAR, in your dreams. Your mind dreams to comfort and stand by you in your crisis; "I had a dream of us arguing at first, but than we solve the problem, a bit later in the dream, and make up." Your mind is trying to help you settle this issue but, somehow another part of your thinking (your reasoning mind)believes this is a bad recurring dream.
Oh, dear reader, how confused you are. Let your mind comfort you. "Let it be"(as the Beatles once sang in an extremely popular and very moving song). In fact, go to youtube and search "Let It Be." Play the song and read this. It'll soothe your mind. Right now, in your mind, it is a major emotional issue. This will change. Let your mind settle this. Life goes on. Your mind will have some wonderful dreams later on.
And for those bad dreams you may otherwise have, buy a Dream-Catcher, about the size of 4 to 8 inches in diameter is sufficient. And where your bed pillow normally is, right above that, on the ceiling, tack it on, dangling down free, any length 4 to 12 inches from the ceiling but, away from you.
I have had at one time, terrible nightmares, from my stressful times in the real life violent mean street "Barrios" of San Antonio, Texas. I can attest to the Dream-Catcher's efficacy. After I tacked mine onto the ceiling, I never had any kind of bad dream, nightmare, ghostly visitation, negative entity, whatsoever. And my only naive statement at the time was; "I hope this works. I really need for you to work for me, please." Of course, I said this with emotionally charged, dire necessity and sincerity.
Well, that's my take on this. This is my .02c worth of comment from the peanut gallery section.