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Help Please advice.
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My grandmother Kathleen is giving me a hard time again. Frist she will want to make amends. Then start picking a part everything I say on Fbook. I blocked her. But every time I say something that buged me bout somebody and make a qouet she will think it is about her when it is not. And she has caused problems for me the last two years. I think she wants to be center of my stress world. She talked bout me and so has my aunt clarice. My grandmother lives with her but thats the only daughter she has to talk to cause she fought with the other 5 kids. What do I do is there something to make her NICE?
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Re: Help Please advice.
By: / Beginner
Post # 2
Personally, I am of the belief that the elderly have lived long enough to earn the right to be crotchety.

They are simply words, and while it comes from family, you make the choice to let them affect you. Instead of changing her, how about you work on changing how you react TO her.
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Re: Help Please advice.
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Post # 3
Try a sweetening spell for those people, a good one I hear is a honey jar, but this is my advice go with what you choose
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Thank you. And I always try to be good to her. My baby girl wich is her great grandchild and asked if she wanted to blow birthday candles out togather because they were born on the same day and she wouldent. But she did with another grandchild who wasnt. She has said mean things about my baby before she was born and after she was born when she never met her. She only met her threw passing 2 times. Once was when I thought we worked things out and they as my aunt and grandmother invited me there along with my mum and this was not long after my grandmothers and my baby birthday. I still picked her up gifts. I have tryed so hard for so long to get along with both of them. I also do not know if my aunt is getting on her site and being hatful or if my grandmother is going nuts. Or feels stuck. But she said alot of hurtful thing where it tore 5 of her kids away from her for 3 years and my mom and I for two. And still tryed to make amends after all of this. She said hurtful things bout my aunts husband who had cancer
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Re: Help Please advice.
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Post # 5
Then when my uncle past she told another aunt of mine she never gave his passing a 2nd thought. I just need to talk to somebody and get some advice. Should I just forget about her and not ever back in my life? I have tryed to talk to her and tell her I dont want to fight with her and loved her and tryed to work things out but all she does now is fight with every one expect the only child she has left to talk to and thats who she lives with any advice would be great. I just had to let this out and she was better when my grandfather was here. Then she was a little rude but people was use to that and let it slide. Then she moved with my aunt and thats when she fought with all her kids and dont get why when my uncle shot him self 11 years ago. And she wrote on my wall not that long ago asking how my other uncle was and say hi to him cause I was there so I did and he said hi back. She asked how come he hasnt visit her. I told her how he was working alot then she called him a punk and she dont want nothing to do
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Re: Help Please advice.
By: / Beginner
Post # 6

Why would you write on Facebook about people who bug you?
Well anyways, if she's always like that, maybe you shouldn't change her or you, but just break the relationship, or bring it to the least level possible. So, just the formal conversations, because it's obvious that you can't be close. It's the way that woman is so you shouldn't try to change her now, there's for sure a reason she's acting like a bad person and sometimes, if you don't get along with someone, you should probably just let it go. It's nice from you that you still want her in your life after all of that, but sometimes we can't sort things out and we need to let go. Now I'm not saying you should act as she doesn't exist- help her if she needs it, send her money, whatever, but you don't need to be too close to her if she hurts people, especially if she says mean things about a baby she has never even seen!

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Re: Help Please advice.
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Post # 7

Oh but it's also perfectly fine for her not to understand why would someone shoot themself. I don't either, but it's not a reason to fight with someone.

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Re: Help Please advice.
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Nothing to do with him. But before she was rude to me and my mum I got back pay and gave her 500 hundred just to do what she wanted with. She started to be this mean after she moved with my aunt. I do not know what to do. And she just got done insulting me again not to long ago. And blocked her. There is one thing to be cruchy but another to be so hurt full to your famliy. Like I said I just need to get this out and have advice how to deal with it and what to do. I feel bad its to the point I feel like she is not a grandmother. And she told my uncles ex girlfriend the uncle who shot him self that that famliy did not want nothing to do with his kids and that was not true at all. We all wanted to. And they were like little sisters. So because of her we missed out on alot with them. Now I get to see them. One is almost 16 and the other if alomst 14. Saw the 4 times after my uncle and his ex split up so I miss alot of years. And have no Idiea what to do with this women my grandmother. What should I do?
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Re: Help Please advice.
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Post # 9
Your right and thank u. I will be there if she needs me but other then that I will avoid her. I would like something to do with her threw it all but my baby is first. If I hear she needs me then I be there but other then that I cant talk to some one who will be hatefull.
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Re: Help Please advice.
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The thing I wrote on fbook was some people bug me and it was a joke between two friends and expalin to my grand mother it was not ment for her and a joke between two friends and she thought I ment her wrote her a note and told her it was a joke between friends and it had nothing to do with her then she was mad. She got mad when I read a qoute and put it on there and it was nothing bad. She got mad cause I had a cousin spend the night. She picks things apart.
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