So weird things have been happening lately.I don't know but I think I might be connected to someone psychicly.I have a very stroung urge to help him and I get all shakey and worried about him and sometimes my head feels hot..like I have a fever but it goes away when I'm distracked.I've also have very vivd dreams about him..I can't remember them that good but I remember he's aways asking for my help and when I ask what's wroung I wake up.I don't even know him and I've never talked to him before so I'm really confused about what to do...please help me
Maybe you are over caring? Would you normally help? If not then I suspect that he will play a key part in your future. As if you feel like you know someone that you only seen for the first time then he/she will have a role in your future.
I think I can relate to this very well. I've been wondering about this about only 1 person I know, because what has happened (and keeps happening) is different than anything else.
To give examples: we have freakishly a lot of things in common, like tastes (narrowed down to picking the same songs, movies, books, foods, clothes you name it) many more times than I can remember. We've known each other for almost 3 years so it hasn't been educated in time, it's just always been there. Plus we're both very head-strong people, very unlikely to get easily influenced :)
We're keeping in touch on an almost daily basis, mostly on social media (by phone very rarely), because we're both very busy people.
What's really been weirding me out for a while now is that I can feel so strongly when he misses me or has been thinking about me a lot, to the point of waking up at 1 am or so, full of energy and on specific purpose to check my FB account for messages. And every time this has happened (4 or 5 times) he had also been awake and had needed to talk to me (nothing serious, just feeling lonely or had missed me).
This is precisely why I can't help but set him aside in my mind as special from all of my other friends and I wish I wouldn't do that but I keep getting reasons to keep doing it.
No, it's not because he's a boy & I'm a girl, I have plenty of other guy friends (some very attractive) that I don't feel like this about and we're both in long-term relationships with other people.
I have also had quite a lot of very vivid dreams about him - and I have a very hard time remembering what I dream, but these I can almost see in my mind even now.
The dreams where about very nice things like us dancing together, taking car/motorcycle rides together or just talking and being silly together. What is common to all of them is a vibe of mollifying , pervading warmth (similar to what one gets after a really good massage) that I also got from him - but not as intensely - on the few occasions when we spent time together in person. I can remember clearly how those occasions left us both so charged with energy that we couldn't sleep for the following night and I wonder why because our communication in person is not so efficient as in writing - we're both quite shy and introverted :)
I've tried setting some space between us, so as to stop giving him special treatment compared to my other friends, but I always ended either feeling very depressed / empty after a few days or he contacted me to ask me where have I been, is everything ok. It's almost like a very hard addiction.
And we've been doing this for 2 years 1/2 and we can't seem to get bored of talking to eachother.
Now I'm again on one of those nights when after sleeping for 4 hours or so (not nearly enough for me to feel rested) I suddenly woke up because I had to check my FB and found he'd wrote to me to ask where've I been for the last couple of days - too busy with work for FB...
I'm not one to believe in neverending love, soulmates & chick-flick cliches of the sort that's why I don't want to risk ruining our friendship for any of that. I just wanted to share my experience here and hopefully we'll have some more input from someone more knowledgeable in these kind of things :)
nest of luck to you too! ;)