Bonjour.

Well, all the same, I don't want to just make him lose interest in me, but I want him to find a lover who can actually provide for his emotional needs and such.
Also, since I want to be the one who is left, I would have to perform the spell on myself, and I'm prepared to be alone.
If I DID perform it on myself, would the law of three make it four times as powerful?

black magick isnt the kind of spell power your looking for, look up all sorts of different spells. do more research what your doing first.

Well, ending love is generally considered black magick from what I've been told. And I can't seem to find anything that's as specific as I said, but feel free to prove me otherwise.

black magick would be ending love, but considering you dont love the person your trying to get rid of, i dont see how that pertains to you. you just said in your last message you want to HELP him move on and find someone else... thats not dark at all.

Well, in theory, I want him to dump me, which is generally a bad thing. But either way, yes I'm doing this for BOTH of our sakes.

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in essence, you would be doing this spell for the well-being of both you and him... therefore, as i said before, black magick, or curses or w/e.. would not be the appropiate approach to the situation. take a day to meditate and focus on the problem, try to find a solution that doesnt solely rely on your magick, and then do what you want.

I'll take some time and slow down a bit now.

that is the wiser choice.. take your time, balance yourself, and decide whats best for YOU.

Quite frankly, I don't care what's best for me, I just want to see him happy.