Hey everyone, I was wondering if anyone can tell me of an enchantment that I can place on a ring on mine to help keep my anger in control? It's becoming harder to control lately, and a doctor calls it IED (Intermittent Explosive Disorder).
umm... Sometimes it's if someone or a group of people keep pestering me about something or just at a random time I get a prickly feeling (something like a mat of dull needles waving over ones body continuously) and then I just have a feeling of uncontrolled anger, it's when I get the prickly feeling that it's the worst. I have a way of meditating it off in a quiet place, but most of the time I don't have that option. I nearly got expelled for the anger once. Is that enough info?
Sounds like the real problem is that you simply don't know yourself well at all. Most people have hidden, dark places within us that we dare not look upon, and can not see because of shadow. Casting light upon such places can evoke a number of reactions, it depends on the person.
As for you, you have a problem with anger, where that comes from, why inside you of course. As I said, you don't know yourself very well, and when people do not know themselves they can develop all sorts of problems.
Many on this site like to play amateur psychoanalyst, saying they have degrees in psychology and such, to which I say so what. Many have useless undergrad degrees in this subject, means nothing, and certainly does not qualify them to shrink someone, especially online. Hence I speak only in the general and abstract most of the time, as I will here. In regards to your problem, there are no quick or easy answers, and no, there is no spell that will do the job, nor will hypnosis.
No, I am afraid you will have to take the far more difficult course and learn about who you are first hand. That means delving into the deepest, innermost reaches of self, connecting action, back to thought, thought to emotion, emotion to self, all the way back to the source. This can be done with a good analyst, or by yourself, which could take a lot longer, depends.
Either way, avoid psychological advice from people on this forum. My best advice to you is simple, know yourself, master self. You can start doing this by contacting a good analyst, or researching how to do so yourself. People in today's society too often believe self healing impossible, however this is not so. People may need some direction, a goal of course, but ultimately we can all heal ourselves.
I hope my less than specific advice has helped, it's really the best, and safest advice you will get here. There is no magic formula for your problem, and anyone who offers such is a fraud.
Controlling ones self, instead of being controlled by your emotions is all to common a problem, one need only look at online websites to be aware of this. There is no magic that will give you this control, as this control is required to perform any magic, a catch 22 if ever I saw one.
Hope I have been of some help, if not, that would just mean you chose not to take my advice, which isn't my problem in the end. Good luck to you, and take care.
Re: item enchantment?
By: Sarafiel / Beginner Mar 31, 2011
Post # 6
First I would like to say that I am not a fraud. I am not offering a magical solution.
However I should also say that there are magical methods to assist with dealing with these types of negative emotions. I have one method that might do you some good if you are willing to try it. I have used this one before and it works pretty well for me. There are those who will claim it is just psychology...then again you could say the same for almost every magical effect so if you are interested here it is.
You will be creating a negative energy sink. This helps to ground out negative energy. I don't know if you could do this with your ring, you could certainly try it. I find that a crystal works best for me. Not just any old crystal either, it should be black. Black tourmaline is what I have used, but I am sure there are other things that would work. Black tourmaline crystals aren't too expensive, I found mine for 35 dollars, and that was a pretty large one. A ring with a black onyx or a black sapphire would work just as well as the black tourmaline.
Once you have the item you will be using, channel some of your own energy into it to charge it. Then picture a link between the stone and the earth. The link should be one way, as in energy will move from the stone to the earth and not from the earth to the stone. That's all you need to do. Carry the item with you wherever you go and as soon as you get the warning signals immediately push all the anger, frustration and negativity directly into the stone. Those feelings will drain harmlessly into the earth. If you feel them coming back just do it again, you can do it as many times as you need. The good thing about this is that you don't have to actually have the item in your hand to do it, as long as you can picture the item in your head and it's near you it will work fine.
By the way if you don't know how to do the Basics of magic and have no experience with energy work you might want to look those up before you do this. It does involve some energy manipulation.
And I was wondering if it would be possible to draw appon the energy if need be (not to use it as an energy source for a spell or anything of course, I've heard and read about those affects), if I'm needing a slight boost of energy if an emergency occurs.
To boost your energy in an emergency I would suggest a more positive source. The negative energy sink I was suggesting wouldn't store the energy it would just flush it into the earth. There are plenty of nice positive sources for energy, why would you want to draw on the anger you wanted to get rid of? That would just bring back the negative emotions you were trying to negate in the first place.
I suggest not trying to do so but if you really want to store the energy instead of grounding it out you would do the same thing but don't put the link from the stone to the ground. That would require a high quality stone with no fractures or imperfections in it because storing energy inside stones like this can make them break if they are already flawed.
Again I don't recommend drawing on negative energy. There are much better sources. You will have to experiment to find the source best for you. I've known people to draw energy from the sun, the moon, the trees. I don't suggest drawing energy from the earth because there's a lot of negative energy there and it might make you sick (I made that mistake once). You can also draw energy from the elements. My personal favorite place to draw energy from is the cosmos. Yes, the whole universe is a source of energy.
Take my advice, just be rid of the anger energy and find better happier energy elsewhere. Some things you don't need to keep.