For good measure, I always salt and burn everything my x's gave me, symbolically make room for new love banishing the baggage of the old.
There was one that stuck, been where you been (no chick flick moments).
I used this one spell; he didn't disappear from my mind but didn't intrude uninvited anymore. If brought him up, I vaguely remember feelings, but I don't feel them.
I'm only great with certain category of spells and this isn't one of 'em, hope you do better!
1 Red candle for Strength
2 White candle for Healing
A piece of paper with the persons name whom you wish to get over written on it.
Now you begin by placing the White Candles left and right from the Red
Then you light the Red Candle, then the two White Candles.
Then Light the piece of paper with the name on it.
While doing so you should be Chanting these words...
I Burn Thy name (name of person) So it Shall Be
Cast out of my Memory
Your memory Erased from my Mind
No longer held by the Constraints of time
I accept this now made Manifest, So Shall it Be!
Visualize the person fading from your mind until they disappear from your mental screen.