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So hard to be patient.
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Does anyone else find it hard to be patient when waiting to see a spell manifest? I certainly do; although I am an impatient person by nature. I've been trying to relax myself with my meditation and not to worry about things so much, but it's still hard when you want to see the results of a spell so badly.
Does anyone else have this problem? When should you give up on a spell working?
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Re: So hard to be patient.
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Post # 2
you have no choice to be patient your own anxiety can cause the spell to fail. Relax and affirm to yourself all is well, the universe normally manifests things at times when we can get the best benefit from it
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Re: So hard to be patient.
By: / Knowledgeable
Post # 3
I have to agree with pureindigo, once you let a spell into the universe you have to let it go. I know it's hard but you have to put your mind to it or else this can affect your spell.
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Re: So hard to be patient.
By: / Adept
Post # 4
When you cast a spell you need to remember that the thoughts you have after the spell is cast can still effect the spell. Dwelling on the thoughts of did my spell work, when will it manifest, etc. can cause your spell to fall flat. Remember to keep positive about your casting and to be patient. Magic is energy manipulation that changes the outcome of a situation. Sometimes this can happen very quickly and sometimes it takes time. When first starting out you need to remember that your manipulations might have to effect more things before you see a result. Such as a spell to protect you will work faster after you have already done some other protection magic because you are adding to what is already there. The first time you cast a protection spell it will take more time to construct the protection since there might not be any there to begin with.
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I'd say depending on the type of spell. Weather usual takes a couple of days, hexes, curses depends on how the hex or curse is worded, some curses and can last up to several years. Besides patience is a virtue.
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My Wiccan study group once did a experiment that I devised. You pair up with someone, one of you writes down on a piece of paper a desire, you word it like a spell. Your partner also has a paper with the exact same wording. Every day at a agreed hour both of you repeat the desire exactly as written for two weeks. We did this so people would have a harder time sabotaging their own spells, or desires. The person who had a desire may think negative ( I will never be able to find this money to pay my bills) but the partner has no emotional attachments to the particuler desire and repeats the spell or desire daily. We found out that 90% of the desires came true, much higher then if we would have done this by ourselves. It showed us that a lot of our spells, desires, prayers, are sabotaged by our own doubts. Now... we did not ask to win the lottery, we kept the desires realistic and obtainable. It was also interesting that even the 10% that did not come true, partially came true. When one prays, or casts a spell it is so tough to let it go, not think about it, not doubt it, I believe we sabotage a large portion of our desires and needs by our own self-doubts, this exercise I mentioned may be one way to teach us just that.
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Thanks for all the great insight, everyone.
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So after a spell has been cast, should I just try not to think about it at all afterward? Just concentrate on the positive outcome I want?
What if I pray, should I keep my spell's desires in my prayers? Or not even dwell on it then?
Thanks. :)
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Try to let it go, it is hard to not think of something that you want, but try!! Prayers in my opinion are spells, my teacher said that spells are prayers with props.
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Re: So hard to be patient.
By: / Adept
Post # 10
Thinking about your spell after you cast is can help it to manifest if you can keep all negative thoughts out of your head. This is easier said than done especially for one new to magic. If you do find yourself thinking about the casting be sure to add a bit of positive energy to it and then let all thoughts of the spell go. The idea is not to dwell on the outcome or place negative energy into the manipulation as it is working. Patience is a must when working magic just like it is a must in so many aspects of life.

Some castings actually require a daily action or thought as it manifests. These are a bit more involved and require a type of patience that is harder for some to get right.
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