I agree with you Ardor, but that's why some of us are here, to help others learn to work with the aspects that we interest ourselves in and bit more.
I love learning, teaching, sharing, and helping; and I love fire. If a member is willing to learn to control fire, then I will show them some pointers on manipulating it. If a member wants to control it without working, then I will show them the harsh reality of it.
Control is word that means many things, along with manipulation, is does not necessarily mean absolute authority over something with no questions asked. It can mean something else, such as working with it to gain what you desire.