is there any way i can get rid of feelings i have for someone? she's all i've thought about since we broke up in October and i want to only have friend-like feelings toward her. it's gotten to the point where i have to lie to hide my love-like feelings for her. i should let you all know i was the one who broke up with her.
getting over a love is a really hard thing to do. a few years ago i was dating a guy who was perfect for me in every way possible. after a month i started to loose contact with him and when i finally talked to him on the phone he said he started going out with another girl before he even broke up with me. it broke my heart. it took me nearly 3 months which was all summer to get over him. all i ever thought about was him. until i met someone else who is with me to this day almost 3 years later.
its really hard getting over someone, try meditating when you feel upset about it. if shes a good friend and still wants to be friends with you, then dont disconnect with her, still talk to her, be friends and soon before you know, someone else who will mean alot to you will come to you even if it may take awhile