There is a thing called perception clouding that has to deal with your aura and energy. The concept is to make yourself invisible to others' attention and stay on a low key while you are about your business.
You could use the opposite effect by making your aura noticeable by certain people. Also, how you carry your body is very important. If you are slouched, have a slow pace, and look down or into the distance too often, it sends the message to other people that you are not very sociable. However, if your shoulders and back are straight, you look forward or directly into the eye of another while talking, and have a brisk pace, it sends the message to people that you are confident of yourself. People like others who are confident.
Ok im a dude and here my point of veiw if a guy/girl will not accect u the way u are the hack with them there is no reason to change ur self for some one to like u it can make u lose urself and when u get old say whho the hack am i oh the girl oh do ever realy go advise take it
Yes.You're one and only.Your personality is unique.Each and every person on the planet is unique.So you stay who you are.If somebody doesn't like you the way you are,then it's his/her bad,and definitely not yours;)
Thank you everyone for the suggestions, I will try doing what everyone has said. I know I'm a good guy and I am attractive it just wears thin when the same things happen over and over no matter where I go. I will definitely take these suggestion and work with them though!
Why not make a skintight cloaking shield, but instead of cloaking, it sort of 'attracts attention' to you. I read a tech. like this somewhere, not sure where though...
Walk with your back straight - that'll help build your confidence.
Yeah, confidence, good posture, good dress style (clothes that fit with your body shape, but still express your individuality), get a haircut that you like/fits/whatever.
I've found that living with a positive attitude (comes down to the law of attraction), meditating and aura cleansing regularly helps a great deal.
