Keep practicing. Let this reawakening be a conscious decision to continue to grow. As you practice meditation, spells, and other energy works, your aura expands. When you are dormant, it takes cue and retracts. When you practice these things, if you learn to listen, you can hear the words of your Higher Self. When you do not, it becomes quieter. We do a lot of work to get in touch with our higher selves, our spirit guides, our holy guardian angels...And then we get discouraged, distracted, disoriented, or some other dis word, and maybe go on hiatus. And as unintentional as it might be, we sit back a little longer than we like...because I mean, it's easy, it's comfortable. Then that knock comes along: new person, new circumstance, whatever the case may be...It is much harder to start again, than it would have been to just keep working through, and I tell you this from experience. When things get overwhelming, even if you can keep a little bit in touch with your spiritual side, your meditation and your practice, it is much better than stopping right where you're at.
When it comes to the magickal workings of others, and how you are directly effected by it, remember for yourself, it's your mind and your magick. You can only be as effected, or influenced as you allow yourself to be. Thank the person for opening the door for you to start again,(maybe not even physically, but in your mind be grateful), and disregard any other influence. You will feel tons better.