You mean, you're a man, and you want to cast the spell on a man? That's no problem, because there is a female version of the spell (I'm sure you can use that too)that exist, I have tried it and it works!
It's on this site: pmsl.eu
I have to tell you: it's a powerful enchantment, but it won't last forever. You might have to do it again, enchant an apple, make him eat a piece or even juice, I did it and it worked for me :)