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I'm wondering if there if a spell or something to get rid of the my bad self for lack of better words, the selfish, spiteful, annoying, and a really good descriptive word I can't post. It started as the little nay sayer in my mind then the thoughts came more often, then more hurtful, and Even more constant and annoying, i usally kept it at bay but know my innerards are bubbling to the surface. I don't want to change this way, I can see it's beginning to stir my friends I don't mean to annoy or irritate them but I end up doing so anyways, I need something to change who I am to something better. Anything will be greatly appreciated!