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Hello everyone. I'm here for some advice.
I started a thread yesterday, I asked for some advice, you know, which spell could I use to make someone like me (in a non-harmful, non obsessive, non will-forcing way, heh). Somebody suggested I should try the Honey Jar. But now, I've a few questions... Nope, I haven't tried the honey jar yet.

You can surely tell, I'm a beginner. And I'd like some advice. First of all, I know I should know the basics, could someone give me a few tips, and maybe suggest some book or manual about the basics? I'd love to learn. Second: is there any trick to make a honey jar? It seems so easy, according to the instructions... I've a few doubts... For example: what happens if I don't have the oil for the candle? Does it work anyway? What happens if I open the jar? I can't add anything else after I closed it, I'm guessing. Should I lit a candle per day for how many days?

Thank you :)