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I have a question about fire. I like the element fire, I think its very powerful.
I do my own spells. When I feel inspired I usually do them impulsively with simple tools. I rarely plan my rituals several days before. Sometimes I use paper and simply write down my wish or intend. I whisper a rhyme and then I burn the paper over a flame. For me it feels like a chemistry occurs in the air.


But if I do a lovespell, does the fire destroy the love then?
If I burn a flower, does it destroy the beauty?
Does it give positive or negative energy to the spell when I burn something? Must fire be something destructive?
Im neutral and open to all opinions!