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I know that spells shouldn't be done for everything in life and that you can solve stuff yourself, the natural way.

But, I have a friend who's life is really horrible right now. So are we allowed to cast a spell or two for her, to make her happier and improve her life? We both want it, she wants of course a better life and I love her as a friend and I want her to be happy. The situations in her life are pretty complicated, so... Should she do the spells?

I'm not sure what to tell her, because I do strongly believe that if we can improve our lives with no magick, we should, by just working on it to 'focus energies on it', haha. But it's just not that she didn't try, she did and she tried hard, but we all have the phase in our life where it goes bad, bad... Well for her it's now going horrible.

Can she cast a spell or two to get it better? Should I do it for her if yes, or it's stronger if she does it herself? Can we write the spells ourselves, and how? I didn't study moon phases, colors, candles, materials much.

Thank you all ahead, and be blessed. :D