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I have recently gone through some serious self-discovery. My husband left me for a younger woman. About 4 months later. A series of events and epiphanies occurred. I became aware of who I am and my spiritual connections and in some cases, abilities for various reasons i always repressed it this knowledge. Hecate saved me. I was so despondent. She responded to my pleas and questions. She is now teaching me. Not blatant responses. No I am to learn to trust myself again and learn to interpret her messages she wishes me to. Its hard sometimes. But this is my question. What is the appropriate amount of time to worship or honor? I realize I have been obsessing in many aspects. I mean I go outside each night for about 2 hours. To the point I have fallen asleep outside. So is once a week okay? I do not wish to be ungrateful or disrespectful of Hecate. Also, I have attempted some spells that say to select your deity relative to love. The first time I select Bastet. But the next time I felt that would produce a negative reaction from Hecate, like it was a snub. Perhaps I am over thinking this. I would appreciate some feedback.